I remember Ben’s smile when something occurred to him, or he noticed something. Also, his integrity he was always straight forward and honest about things. Ben as we know is gifted academically and I remember his sense of achievement at achieving a place at Cambridge. He was a determined talented swimmer who knew about the struggles of taking on a sporting challenge. Ben remains a part of the community now with the boss, Saint John Bosco in heaven enjoying his company, alongside Father Brendan. Thanks for Ben, close to us now in heaven. Please bless Julie, Dave and Michael and help them to know their loved and supported.

On behalf of everyone at CALM, we are so sorry to hear about this terrible loss. If anyone is struggling or looking for support, Help is at Hand is a resource for people who have suffered bereavement; you can read it online here: https://supportaftersuicide.org.uk/resource/help-is-at-hand/ More information and resources are also available on the CALM website, and please remember, the CALM Helpline (0800 58 58 58) is available from 5 pm-midnight, 365 days a year for anyone who is struggling.

Thank you for setting up this memorial to Ben. We hope that you find it a positive experience developing the site and that it becomes a place of comfort and inspiration for you to visit whenever you want or need to.